▲新加坡一名71歲男子見到25歲美國籍男子，大膽示愛：「你是GAY，我也是GAY！那你今晚FxxK我！」（圖／翻攝自Joe DeMarini臉書影片）
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新加坡一名自稱是同性戀的71歲顏姓男子，今年4月在地鐵上騷擾一名25歲美國籍男子，不斷大膽示愛：「你是GAY，我也是GAY！那你今晚FxxK我！」被拍下影片還硬鬧要跟美國男約炮上床，17日被控騷擾、蓄意傷人、滋擾公眾共3項罪狀。
根據外媒報導，71歲的顏男自稱是同性戀，他4月19日晚上8時30分許搭乘前往花拉公園的列車時，見到車廂內美國籍男子德梅里尼（Joseph DeMarini），立即上前搭訕。
搭訕過程中，顏男大膽示愛：「我喜歡你。你是gay，我也是gay！」、「我要你今晚FxxK我！」不斷指稱德梅里尼是同志，即便對方一直否認說「我不是」，要求不要再言語騷擾，他還不斷跳針：「你就是gay！」
其他乘客看不下去，紛紛出面制止，但顏男仍不斷鬧事，不斷大喊自己是gay，指著美國男說他也是gay，還出手攻擊人，場面相當尷尬。
整段過程都被德梅里尼的朋友用手機拍下來，並且將影片上傳至臉書上。畫面曝光後引起網友熱議，從上傳至今已有近160萬次觀看。
網友們紛紛留言表示：「也太可怕了吧」、「不管同性戀異性戀，騷擾別人真的是很噁」、「新加坡地鐵一堆毛」、「美國男應該嚇死了」、「這應該就是精神疾病吧？」、「好可怕」、「不知道要怎麼教小孩了」、「旁邊的民眾都很錯愕」、「這什麼社會啊！不會尊重他人嗎」等。
Hey Singapore friends: just a heads up, this guy physically assaulted me on the MRT, so if you ever see him, be on your guard. I was with a friend and he approached me--drunk--and said he was gay, and that he wanted to fuck me. He said, "I know you're gay, so let's fuck." This went on for several minutes and I tried to politely diffuse the situation, but then he began to yell at my friend when she intervened; I wouldn't let this stand, and started to become angry myself. He threatened her, and some other people on the train intervened (several were filming). He touched me, and I told him not to, and I briefly lost my temper--after that he slapped me on the side of the head. He kept going on and on, and when a woman tried to take his picture, he attempted to kick her phone out of her hand. When my friend and I got off at our stop, he got off as well, but we managed to evade him and leave the station without him following us. For those of you that don't know: I'm not gay (not that it should matter). However, I don't exactly fit the "masculine" mold of society, so oftentimes I am mistaken as queer--on several occasions around the world, for example, I've caught flak for carrying a "man purse." On a personal level, this is why I need feminism: so I can be confident in myself and not feel like I have to fulfill any gender role assigned to me. However, I do appreciate that women probably have to deal with this shit (or at least the threat of it) on a fairly regular basis. For those asking "Why didn't you fight back or call the police?" I say, "I am a white immigrant in a country where I do not have citizenship and am a minority--law enforcement may not take my side, despite video and photo evidence." This is something I learned while living in South Korea, where no amount of assimilation will protect you when a Korean is arguing against you. In this situation, there's a chance I would've been accused of inciting violence, and been charged accordingly. I feel pretty awful about this--it's after 2:30 in the morning and I can't sleep; I can't even bring myself to watch the video. Is that normal? In a sick sense, I feel lucky to have this recorded: it's proof! And others have recorded it as well! Some people would die for that kind of evidence! Yet here I am, too embarrassed and too ashamed to watch it. A slap on the head is nothing, really, but I feel completely unsettled--Singapore has been a trial by fire since my first day, and this doesn't help. In all honesty, I'm a bit tipsy and have no idea what I'm feeling. I wish I'd said thank you to the train people who took a stand and put themselves between me and this man, but I was too rattled to muster it (at least I could thank my friend, who had the good sense to make a video). I wish I'd sat in a different train car, and the whole situation could've been avoided. Was it the V-neck I was wearing? My ripped skinny jeans? I probably should have held my temper, but that's not my character. Could I have found a way to peacefully diffuse the whole situation? It's obviously not my fault but, somehow, a part of me is convinced it was. Anyway, I have work in the morning, so the only thing to do is press on (or at least try to get some sleep). I've accomplished more in a few years than I could've ever imagined, and I've met so many amazing and supportive people along the way--I can't really let the few bastards of the world stop me, can I?
Posted by Joe DeMarini on Wednesday, 19 April 2017
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